'MEN' Places You Shouldn't Touch During Sex

Great sex is all about spontaneity and
exploration—assuming, of course, you
have her consent. But there are a
few parts of her body you shouldn't
touch willy-nilly. Here are four such
spots you're better off avoiding.

1. Her cervix.
If you reach her cervix during sex,
recognize that something is wrong.
Remember, this is the narrow canal
that connects the vagina to the uterus
—where babies grow. That isn’t a
place you want to go, so don’t knock
on the door. For starters, it’s painful
for her to have something rammed
against her cervix, and it could be a
sign that you need to shift for a
position with shallower penetration.
But it could also mean that she isn’t
warmed up enough. Her uterus will
actually “lift” upwards when she’s
sexually aroused, making her vaginal
cavity a few inches deeper than when
she isn’t turned on. So don’t skimp on
foreplay, and don't service her cervix.

2. The head of her clitoris.
This might seem counterintuitive, but
the clitoris—which is full of super
sensitive nerve endings—can
sometimes feel too intense when it’s
stimulated directly. Touching the
clitoris head-on, especially if she’s
really aroused, can feel too severe.
Think about that feeling when you
gulp an ice-cold beverage and your
teeth start to tingle—it’s just not
pleasant. Instead, try going for the
shaft of her clitoris or rubbing circles
around it, which will engage the
nerve endings without
overstimulating her. We won’t tell
you to never touch her there, but it’s
worth checking in with your partner
to see if she has a sensitive C-spot.

3. Her feet.
Especially if she's sporting socks. A
study from Johns Hopkins University
showed that wearing socks in the
sack can increase orgasm potential,
for both men and women. One
potential reason: In order to orgasm,
women need to be totally relaxed and
anxiety-free, and cold feet can
interfere with their ability to really
get into sex. Though we usually
recommend knocking her socks off,
leave them on this time.

4. Her anus.
Unless you’re all lubed-up, that is.
Anal play can take plenty of warming
up, but even when she’s totally
aroused and ready to get it on,
nothing should go in there without a
generous helping of lubricant. The
anal opening is small enough that
even a finger can feel uncomfortable.

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Men's Health.